Your private vault

The vault is yours alone. The other parent can’t see that anything in it exists. Your attorney sees only what you choose to share.

Concerns

Choose a concern from the list, or name your own. Each comes with a checklist of what may help show it, and who usually has each item. Mark each item as added (with a file), I don’t have this, or Not yet, and add your own account.

Keep to a few ground rules: whole documents only, include your own side, never go into the other parent’s accounts, and don’t record anyone or question your child.

Logged events

Record what happened, when and where, who was there, the exact words, how your child seemed, what you did and who you told. Add up to 20 files. Once saved, the words can’t change. Correct this adds a new version and keeps the first.

Check-ins about your child

Note how your child is doing with sleep, school, mood, health and activities.

Sharing with your attorney

Turn on Share with my attorney for a concern or a logged event, and add a note for them. Your attorney can ask you for specific items; their requests and dates appear under From your attorney.

Your timeline

Your timeline puts the shared record (messages, expenses, support and emergencies) together with your private entries. Star the important ones, or add a note for your attorney.